KIDS - Yay or Nay?

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KIDS

Yay (I'd prefer them to be mine biologically)
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30%
Yay (I don't care either way)
40
31%
No
27
21%
Unsure
23
18%
 
Total votes : 129

Re: KIDS - Yay or Nay?

Unread postby Burns » 4th March, 2016, 4:09 am

Not unless I knock-up some pro-lifer.
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Re: KIDS - Yay or Nay?

Unread postby Stripy Tiger » 4th March, 2016, 4:34 am

I'd rather not have kids. I have brothers to continue the family line.
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Re: KIDS - Yay or Nay?

Unread postby Finch » 4th March, 2016, 6:04 am

Burns wrote:Not unless I knock-up some pro-lifer.

Not unless the pro-lifer becomes a pro-choicer :lol:
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Re: KIDS - Yay or Nay?

Unread postby Kaiduru Zeta » 5th March, 2016, 9:15 pm

I'd personally say yay
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Re: KIDS - Yay or Nay?

Unread postby rxxli » 5th March, 2016, 9:40 pm

Yes I definitely want kids when I am older.
I would prefer them to be my genetic offspring. But it's definitely not a must.
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Re: KIDS - Yay or Nay?

Unread postby jellysnake » 7th March, 2016, 3:44 am

I think I would be up for kids, but I think I'd start worrying about that once/if I ended up having a partner.
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Re: KIDS - Yay or Nay?

Unread postby Frederico » 7th March, 2016, 5:01 am

I'm one of the people that has the fixation to have one biologically related child to continue my "legacy", and I think I'd also adopt.
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Re: KIDS - Yay or Nay?

Unread postby daylen1 » 7th March, 2016, 10:10 am

Never given much thought to having kids. Right now it's not indicative to my lifestyle. My boyfriend and I travel a lot due to his job, and besides, I'm way to young to even consider the responsibility of having and raising children. Too many parents (mine included)had kids way before they were mature enough to comprehend what all it entails. They end up using the kids as tools or even weapons against each other during and even after divorce, not realizing or maybe caring what they are doing to the kids.
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Re: KIDS - Yay or Nay?

Unread postby nab21 » 7th March, 2016, 11:07 am

Yes.
I want to have kids at some point. I'm not too obsessed with them being my biological offspring, though. I'm perfectly fine with adoption.
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Re: KIDS - Yay or Nay?

Unread postby Jlhudson » 15th March, 2016, 11:04 am

^George^ wrote:I am not really sure. On the one hand, it could be nice to have a kid. On the other hand, I am not a big fan of kids(I have a brother who is 9 years younger, it was too much work :shifty: ) and I am not into relationships either.
I might just get a cat. :gaycat:


I have a sister 9 younger as well, and she is a pain in the butt as well. I could certainly raise a child though, I love children, so long as they aren't too bratty, like my half siblings...
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Re: KIDS - Yay or Nay?

Unread postby Zefare » 15th March, 2016, 11:31 am

I love children, but I'm not sure if I want children. It's really difficult to find a stable enough relationship in this world as it is, and I'm not sure I'd ever be capable of handling the responsibilities alone. It's a very difficult choice to make, that's for sure, as it will definitely mean a drastic change in lifestyle. Perhaps someday, if the conditions are right. I don't want to be a bad parent.
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Re: KIDS - Yay or Nay?

Unread postby Just a little dream » 15th March, 2016, 12:14 pm

I love kids so much!!!! :)

Personally, I would love to have children from my better half :gaycat:
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Re: KIDS - Yay or Nay?

Unread postby Sig » 15th March, 2016, 11:05 pm

muddylegs wrote:My parents wouldn't be okay with me having kids biologically I don't think, then again no kid deserves the risk of looking like me :skull:

Whether or not I have kids is really up to my partner really. I know I could cope with a lifestyle surrounding being a parent, but it's never something I've wished for in particular. I'm too young to choose yet.

I'm hoping that by the time I'm old enough to have kids, bullying people for having gay parents and stigmatising same-sex families will have stopped, so I hope that would never need to be a factor in decision :P


Nah that will never happen, sign your kids up for martial arts so they can beat the hell out of anyone. :P

I might like kids. They don't need to be biological in fact I think I'd rather have a kid 4+. It really depends on the world state, my career, and If I ever find a life long partner.
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Re: KIDS - Yay or Nay?

Unread postby Nostalgia » 15th March, 2016, 11:29 pm

I'd like. But certainly not just one. I am an only child and it has sucked like forever (my older brother and my older sister don't really count).

What a brother/sister your age can give you in terms of confidence, fun, laughs is unique and very special.

It's sad I never had a brother to tease, or to tease me. I love my older brother but me being 20 and him being 31, married and ready to have kids is not the same thing. I'd rather have a 18-20 y/o sis/bro because we'd have more things in common.
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Re: KIDS - Yay or Nay?

Unread postby Liam » 16th March, 2016, 12:03 am

I'm one of those people who wants a lot of kids. I know they can be a hassle and what not but I can really see myself in the future with a big house and lots of kids to fill it up :keke: Since I've pretty much accepted that I'm bi I could end up being with a girl or a guy who becomes my SO. I would really like my kids to be mine biologically because I just want to be able to see myself when I look at them if that makes any sense. Of course if I end up with a guy that might complicate things so surrogacy or something of the sorts, He gets 1/2 and I get the other 1/2 of the kids :awesome:
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Re: KIDS - Yay or Nay?

Unread postby Dessy » 16th March, 2016, 12:10 am

Curious that most people who voted want them to be biologically related, I didn't think that was that common.
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Re: KIDS - Yay or Nay?

Unread postby Zeus » 16th March, 2016, 2:26 am

Well, I have 12 nieces and 1 nephew.. So I gotta love kids for the sake of all! I want my own as well, and adopted one at least.
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Re: KIDS - Yay or Nay?

Unread postby noface99 » 16th March, 2016, 5:40 am

I would love to be a father, but that's up to my partner too. It all depends on when I'm financially stable enough, as when I feel secure financially, that's when I would have a kid.
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Re: KIDS - Yay or Nay?

Unread postby Libero26 » 17th March, 2016, 4:33 pm

i would love to.. so its a yay !!
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Re: KIDS - Yay or Nay?

Unread postby Danchii » 17th March, 2016, 4:45 pm

I'm adopted myself, and that's why I think I want children, and would like them to be adopted. We have so many children in this world needing families, so I'd rather help than just ignore the problem. ^^
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