URGENT Is he gay??? Advice pls

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URGENT Is he gay??? Advice pls

Unread postby Johnnylabello » 25th July, 2017, 2:30 am

Hey
I need some advice...
I have this good friend... were really close. We talk about sex girls and stuff. He doesnt know (no one knows) im gay and he's supposedly straight. During our recent conversation we were talking about sex and porn and what we watch (I lied and told him I watch straight porn). A random topic about gay porn came up in which he admitted he watched a video once. A few moments later he just asked me out of the blue if I'm gay. I didnt give him a straight answer saying that all humans are technically gay and straight and that its a scale. I mentionned an example in which a straight guy is much less "gay" then a gay one and vise versa. He agreed and then said: yeah I guess I agree. I guess im like 99% straight then".
I like him and want this to go further maybe even fuck him but the thing is is he gay or what?
I mean we joke around a lot about it... he says things like I want you to touch my dick or calls me baby or honey and then laughs... He once even joked saying I only fuck women and "my name".
What should I do now? Should I ask him smthng? Why would he ask me if im gay unless he is?
We also even talked about our crushes a month before that... i obviously invented a fake one (girl) and he told me his. Now he says he doesnt like her anyomre like that.
We even compared our penises. He showed me his and I showed him mine... well actually a really quick peek but we actually did and on purpose! We had been talking about it for like a week (It was kinda mostly my idea but still). And also when we played another video game he's randomly slap my ass and kiss my back when I won...
So could he be gay?
Thanks
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Re: URGENT Is he gay??? Advice pls

Unread postby Johnnylabello » 25th July, 2017, 2:31 am

By the way were both 16 and obviously virgins
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Re: URGENT Is he gay??? Advice pls

Unread postby Unseasoned Chicken » 25th July, 2017, 3:04 am

http://www.gayteenforum.org/viewtopic.php?f=4&t=74182&p=2488936#p2488936
You made a thread with the exact same post back in May and received a few good answers, I'd recommend you read them =P But the main thing is, the only way to know if someone is gay if you ask them, everything before that is just speculation and can be very dangerous, sure there are some indicators but these are often very wrong.
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Re: URGENT Is he gay??? Advice pls

Unread postby Kaspar » 25th July, 2017, 4:56 am

Ethan is right, thought in this case I am afraid he is just straight. There is like no evidence that would say otherwise, sorry :rip:
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Unread postby Abdeltyf » 25th July, 2017, 6:03 am

He asked you if you were gay, I think you can ask him the same without sounding like you're just assuming it.
He may be gay, or just likes to make silly jokes like that... You never know until he tells you the truth by himself :P
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Unread postby boiii » 25th July, 2017, 7:00 am

Best thing you could do is spend more time with him. Get closer. Is he your bestfriend already?
He was sorta open to you about his sexual confusion (kinda). You can trust him back I think.
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Unread postby Dolly » 25th July, 2017, 3:23 pm

I was reading this and thought to myself: "Didn't he make that thread already or am I going crazy?" Like I said earlier, he definitely sounds at least a little bit interested in you. Make a move and come out to him; he sounds as if he wants to come out to you as well. I hope it goes well! ;) :heart:
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Re: URGENT Is he gay??? Advice pls

Unread postby Zackie » 9th August, 2017, 11:43 am

Ask him if he's gay. If he says yes, then it sounds like you've got a keeper. :P

In all seriousness though. definitely, ask him first. He seems well-rounded and comfortable around you, go for it.
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Re: URGENT Is he gay??? Advice pls

Unread postby htmlcolor » 14th August, 2017, 10:41 pm

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