Gays to become partially straight if want

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Re: Gays to become partially straight if want

Unread postby swedeam » 30th January, 2018, 9:21 pm

WinterIsHere wrote:I am probably the least experienced person to answer this but I don't think that's how it works.

First of all, "wrath" or any other violent approach should never be part of sexual encounters. Please, prioritize safety, hygiene and respect rather than engaging in experiments potentially dangerous to yourself or others. Any act of intimacy should be based on respect, consent, and affection for the other person and not at all on anger or resentment. Please keep this in mind.

If you identify as bisexual, you shouldn't need a excuse or reason to prefer one sex over the other. Know that you might like girls and guys but at different levels and that's okay. It's by definition what bisexuality is about.

If you find out you you are attracted to one sex only (regardless of male of female), there is only so much you can do and nothing really changes that.
I have tried so hard to like girls just to avoid having to confront myself on my being attracted to guys. It was a painful process that made me feel broken as I constantly fell short of my goals and expectations. As much as I tried, it just didn't work for me and even though I do not feel comfortable sharing my sexuality with my family (just yet), that's all right because I can stop hating myself for failing at something I shouldn't have started to begin with.

I don't think you can force yourself to like someone and even though it may seem scary, you don't have to. There's nothing wrong with you. Nothing in this world is set in stone, preferences change, you might discover a new part of yourself. If you end up falling in love with the opposite sex, that's great. If you have a crush exclusively on the same sex, just as great.

Just make sure to stay safe, take care of yourself and others and everything will work out.

im sorry to brake it to you but monkey is a troll..
Criminaly insane.
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