Poll: So who are you out to?

This is the place to discuss and get advice about things like coming out and relationships. Everyone is expected to be courteous here.

Who have you come out to?

Friends
144
40%
Family
10
3%
Friends and family
55
15%
No one
86
24%
Everyone!
65
18%
 
Total votes : 360

Re: Poll: So who are you out to?

Unread postby Dennis » 17th January, 2016, 4:26 pm

I can actually change it from "no one" to "everyone". Feels kinda good.
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Re: Poll: So who are you out to?

Unread postby Simon » 17th January, 2016, 4:56 pm

Dennis wrote:I can actually change it from "no one" to "everyone". Feels kinda good.

Yeah it does. Awesome job, man. Props.
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Re: Poll: So who are you out to?

Unread postby Suburbia » 1st February, 2016, 9:35 pm

no one :rip:

hopefully that'll change soon
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Re: Poll: So who are you out to?

Unread postby Alto » 1st February, 2016, 9:51 pm

I just came out to one friend like a month ago which felt really good. We'll see whether that changes sooner or later lol
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Re: Poll: So who are you out to?

Unread postby SestoElementoX120 » 3rd February, 2016, 11:06 pm

I came out to one person the other day. Couldn't tell anyone else, though. This girl is a bi genderfluid so she gets the whole pansexual thing. My parents are homophobic and my friends wouldn't like to hear any of my crap at the moment. But it felt awesome even to come out to one person. A huge weight lifted off my shoulders.
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Re: Poll: So who are you out to?

Unread postby MrMonopoly » 3rd February, 2016, 11:42 pm

I'm actually fairly open about my sexuality if any of my friends ask.

I have no idea why it really scares me to tell my parents.. even though I'm sure they already know and are fine with it :wtc:
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Re: Poll: So who are you out to?

Unread postby MoonBear » 4th February, 2016, 12:28 am

Completly open about it. Everyone knows
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Re: Poll: So who are you out to?

Unread postby Kinzvlle » 8th February, 2016, 11:55 am

I refer to my closet as being slightly ajar. A handful of friends know as does my adopted brother who is gay. Back home I came out really only came out to two PPP they then told others. On the bus to school I asked a friend what they'd do if a friend came out as bi he shrugged and said he'd never had a gay friend before. I said nothing else we got to school went to where a group of us stood and the first thing out of his mouth "So MC's bi" Wasn't to thrilled with that but other then teasing it went fine. Later I low key came out to a close femapebfreind of linen, shw was shocked but apparently her dad had called it along time ago. Then I saw my brother over the summer, and when I said there were no girls I liked asked if there were any boys and he noticed how odd I got and called me on it the next time we were alone. Then we moved and I shuffled back into the closest. I came out to a neighborhood kid I had been hanging out with after he picked up on something I'd said. After asking me if I wanted a sex change and saying how accepting he and his family were then told me that hormone pills "fixed" his cousin and that I should never act on it and pray every night so I could be saved. At least he promised not to tell....because it was probably a "phase" and the devil tempts everyone. .... Ya I was reluctant to tell anyone else after that. Then I started hanging with a group of kids that were mostly lgbtq themselves or at least didn't care if you were. They also told me I sent off more gay vibes then a firemen's calendar.

Honestly it may sound weird but being out on online communitys like the rp sites me and Ren frequent made it easier. Cause I had already had PPP to talk about it with. Now really only my mother's left but..it's complex. She loves and support's my brother but he served under dont ask don't tell, has been discriminated against, and most recently contacted HIV. She loves him but is always say how hard a life it is and has said how happy she is I don't have to deal with it! Her being bipolar adds to the stress of it.

Was not planning to rattle off the whole big tale. Guess I needed some of that off my chest. Well back to work.
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Re: Poll: So who are you out to?

Unread postby Saint Drogo » 8th February, 2016, 12:21 pm

I think I came out to my boyfriend. Not sure, though.
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Re: Poll: So who are you out to?

Unread postby Knope » 8th February, 2016, 1:00 pm

Saint Drogo wrote:I think I came out to my boyfriend. Not sure, though.


"You mean I've been fucking a faggot this entire time?!"

I'm not out to anybody. I'm completely in the closet.
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Re: Poll: So who are you out to?

Unread postby Jamesk » 8th February, 2016, 1:01 pm

Only out to friends, yet. But my parents know, they are just uncomfortable discussing it. I'm planning to tell them when I turn 18.
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Re: Poll: So who are you out to?

Unread postby BryanC » 10th February, 2016, 11:53 am

I'm out to mostly all my friends and they've been cool and supportive about it. I am afraid though to come out to my family cause I think my family either won't like me as much make fun of me or treat me annoyingly different.
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Re: Poll: So who are you out to?

Unread postby LiveDynamics98 » 12th February, 2016, 10:01 am

I'm out to two friends. One is my personal Fairy Gay Mother (her words not mine). She's a close friend, and has been a great help through all this. Her also being gay made her a pretty obvious choice. I don't know who I'd talk to or where i'd have learned gay slang from if not for her.

Then I told a straight male friend, because he wouldn't stop trying to set me up with a girl. I guess my friends think i'm an asexual vegetable, since I do so little talking about sexual subjects. I eventually just explained why I kept turning down his attempts to set me up with the girl and he was completely supportive.
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Re: Poll: So who are you out to?

Unread postby daylen1 » 12th February, 2016, 12:23 pm

I'm out to mostly everyone. Mom's okay with it, Pops won't talk about it, Nana still loves me and my friends are all cool with it!
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Re: Poll: So who are you out to?

Unread postby Stripy Tiger » 6th May, 2016, 1:40 pm

As of now, my best friend. He called me a fag, we laughed and then carried on talking about random shit.
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Re: Poll: So who are you out to?

Unread postby MojoMann » 6th May, 2016, 2:29 pm

Five friends of mine. I talk about it all the time with only one of them.
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Re: Poll: So who are you out to?

Unread postby Bridgey98 » 6th May, 2016, 2:58 pm

A few friends in my college class
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Re: Poll: So who are you out to?

Unread postby c70 » 7th May, 2016, 10:31 pm

My best friend :) And of course all of you guys here.
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Re: Poll: So who are you out to?

Unread postby Zeus » 2nd June, 2016, 8:59 am

Some friends!
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Re: Poll: So who are you out to?

Unread postby Ren » 3rd June, 2016, 4:55 pm

My brother was the only one that knew, now no one does. Other than my gf, obviously.
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