Help me find myself :(

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Help me find myself :(

Unread postby Knowy » 6th October, 2017, 2:33 pm

Hello,
I have been attracted to both girls and boys since my early puberty. It hasn't changed until now as I am 19. I love young looking faces and skinny bodies, facial hair or fat face= complete turn off. But I don't like children (luckily) either, ideal age is something like 18-22 with a body of an adult, but a young looking face. I cannot even watch straight porn, because I get so distracted by the man (in a negative way) as I am so unnactracted to them. That applies to 100% 25 years+ actors. So basically I just stick to lesbian porn, which is great.

As for girls, I have had some relationships, some sex, but nothing had lasted for long. I am not as picky with their bodies. The relationships (From the spiritual side lol) have never fullfilled my expectations. I rarely look at girls on the bus, but I look at boys a lot. I dream of having a romantic relationship with a nice good looking boy, to wake up next to them and go for walks, but I have 0 desire to have one with someone old.

I am so upset about this, I think I will never find a serious relationship, but maybe I will grow up out of it? I am an extremely romantic and family type kind of person, I can't imagine living without someone to give my heart to. I refuse to. I will rather end myself, if this continues. Anyone has gone through similar thing or has a opinion? Please help me :/ And excuse my english, I am not living an english speaking country. :fml: :fml: :fml:
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Re: Help me find myself :(

Unread postby Dolly » 6th October, 2017, 8:29 pm

I don't know why you had to include the disclaimer that you aren't attracted to children :err: You just seem like a normal bisexual...
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Unread postby Kaspar » 7th October, 2017, 8:23 am

You're perfectly fine mate, just attracted to both genders with the preference of twinky boys :P Some people would prefer to have a daddy bear man in their life, some the opposite - nothing wrong with that really :) And you might just be a picky romantic with high standards :lol:
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Re: Help me find myself :(

Unread postby Auralnauts » 8th October, 2017, 3:56 pm

Okay, I'll help you. When was the last time you remember seeing yourself? Retrace your steps.
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Unread postby EScott » 12th October, 2017, 12:42 am

You don't have to feel depressed Knowy. Everything happens for a reason and when the right time will come, you will definitely going to get your partner. You just need to build your self confidence dear. Don't lose hope, believe in fate and destiny.
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