I do not know if i am gay

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I do not know if i am gay

Unread postby Amsterdam777 » 9th February, 2018, 7:02 pm

Hi! Im 16 years old and do not know if i am gay. I need the opinions of other people as i have tried all these tests and stuff but still have no idea if they are accurate.

I have been wondering if im gay since i was 12. Since then i have been watching both straight and gay porn. In the past two years however i have pretty much only watched gay porn, and if i watch straight porn, it is way less pleasurable and is always anal sex (vaginal i do not find hot). I have never had a girlfriend or boyfriend.

I have used dildos and fingered my ass lots of times as it is my favourite way to get off. I also get raging boners whenever i see a gay scene on tv.

However at school i find the girls to be more attractive. I almost never look at boys (though there have been a couple). But everytime i masturbate its not to women.

The idea of being gay feels kind of natural and i get insanely embarressed whenever someone jokes about me being gay.

I cant tell whether this is simply a fetish, im bi or homosexual but i want to have sex with men way more than with women.

If i was gay however, im not sure i would ever want to come out to my parents or anything because i feel like i let them down.

Does anyone think they know what my sexual orientation is?

Thanks for reading
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Re: I do not know if i am gay

Unread postby Joedaniels221 » 9th February, 2018, 7:55 pm

Porn preferences only depend on what can get you off quickest. If you are attracted to girls irl and enjoy watching gay porn then maybe you are bi? But as crap as it may be to hear, no one can tell you what your sexual orientation is. It is something that you will come to figure out. Tests are never accurate and what you feel deep down is likely to be the honest truth.
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Re: I do not know if i am gay

Unread postby joshe » 10th February, 2018, 1:03 pm

I think you're probably bisexual then
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Re: I do not know if i am gay

Unread postby say10 » 12th February, 2018, 12:24 pm

Your story is very similar to mine. Wait few years and it will become clearer for you. Probably a little bit later you will find every second guy attractive(it's vey annoying) At least i told you how it was with me.
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Re: I do not know if i am gay

Unread postby Dolly » 12th February, 2018, 1:59 pm

You seem bisexual.
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Re: I do not know if i am gay

Unread postby boiii » 12th February, 2018, 2:02 pm

I found out I was gay because I watched porn, you might be bisexual like Dolly says.
also, if your friends joke about you being gay they're good people and won't dislike you for it :keke: you don't need to be embarrased.

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