When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Discuss sexuality, whether your own or someone else's.

When did you first question your sexuality?

Younger than 8
16
7%
8-10
27
12%
11-13
133
58%
14-16
45
19%
17-19
9
4%
20+
1
0%
 
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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby M4DNESS » 13th June, 2015, 6:07 am

I never questioned my sexuality, just came naturally.
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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby Charlie_xx » 14th June, 2015, 3:17 am

I never ever questioned my sexuality. I never tried to deny it, I never tried to change it, I never dated or kissed girls, I never watched straight porn. I always knew from the very beginning I was gay. I remember playing house when I was 5 years old in kindergarten ,I kept asking for a husband and kissed boys!
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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby Flighern_ » 14th June, 2015, 11:56 am

When I was younger I always felt slightly attracted to boys, then when I was maybe 11 years old I started to question my sexuality and realised that I prefered boys before girls
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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby Charlie » 14th June, 2015, 12:21 pm

When watching lesbian porn was as arousing as a wet fish.
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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby Mau » 14th June, 2015, 1:35 pm

When I found out that liking the same sex was a thing
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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby Callum » 14th June, 2015, 2:55 pm

I must have been about 15, I was very interested in girls at that time, and one day I clicked on the gay porn section just to see what it was, and I ended up liking it, I still thought I was straight, and the other side of me I kept hidden.
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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby Edna the Queen » 14th June, 2015, 10:00 pm

I was around 13 when I first started to go through puberty and realize I was attracted to men, but at that time I didn't know how to process it to be honest so I pushed those thoughts away.
Around 14 I started to have more thoughts about my sexuality and did research and also was when I first tried ti come out. I had went to my mom with the intention of telling her I was gay but as soon as I tried I stopped and just stooped there. My mom tryed to ask me what was wrong but I realized I just wasn't ready yet and just walked away, and luckily she didn't bring it up again.
It wasn't until I started a school program at the age of 15, that I truly realized I was gay when I started to have a ginormous crush on a guy in my classes. This really confused me because I had a crush on a girl when I was 5, but then I realized that I was 5 and I really didn't know what love was back then. I also never was attracted to girls and that it was only guys. It was because of this I knew I was truly ready to come out. It was around December of last year that I came out to my mom, it was also my first attempt to do so after my first try. I knew that when I was going to do it I wanted to be only us in the room. Although I wasn't worried about my brother or dad taking it the wrong way I wanted my mom to know first. I waited until my brother and my dad left the room to tell her, and was trying to prepare myself to tell her, but in doing so made it look as though I was about to die, which made my mom ask me if I was ok. So I took that opportunity to tell her, and after I did I felt fantastic! I then told most of my family that same day, and was thrilled to know they were all so incredibly supportive! The best reaction was from my grandma (who I don't think has a straight friend lol) who burst into tears yelling "I'm so proud!" And started to hug me. A few months later a friend of mine came out to me as Bi and I also told him I'm homosexual and we're great friends now. All together it took me a while to accept my sexuality but once I did I became the happiest version of myself I've ever been :keke:

Btw I know it was only supposed to be when I realized I was gay but I figured "fuck it I'll tell my story" hope you all enjoyed :keke:

Ps. Sorry if there are errors, I wrote this on my Ipad and was in a bit if a rush so I didn't proof read. I'll fix any errors when I have time. :)
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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby Argent » 18th June, 2015, 2:11 pm

I was never interested in girls, ever. I didn't have an interest in anyone until I was eight and I met this really cute guy at the new school I started. He was the first person I ever found cute or anything and then I hit puberty when I was ten so I started to look at more and more boys and well that was it.
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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby Circles » 18th June, 2015, 10:27 pm

I never had a questioning or uncertain stage, about as soon as puberty started for me, 12, I knew. There wasn't a doubt in my mind, though I had my share of denial for a time, I knew. Being older know, and obviously much wiser, I can look back and see my little crushes on boys long before that time even. It has always been what I am :3
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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby Nicholas » 18th June, 2015, 10:32 pm

Idk I never really thought about it, I just though of boys and girls and attractive, and I accepted it and though it was normal around age 11. I didn't know it was labeled and I didn't label myself until I was 13, I came out to a friend, it was the first time I labeled myself, and I did so as 'bisexual.' Then... I just grew out of liking vag.
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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby Sturgis » 19th June, 2015, 4:16 pm

There was some cover for a book I saw online that had two guys hugging.
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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby josephrr181 » 20th June, 2015, 5:14 pm

The reason I started to question my sexuality is cause I went to an arts camp in new milford and I was like 'wait, gay people are things. Wait, Bi People are things. Wait! trans people are things!'
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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby Curtybyro » 20th June, 2015, 6:14 pm

I was like 6/7 and I "like-liked" two of my best friends, one a girl and one a boy
I looked up what that meant and voila
I never really questioned it, I just kinda knew from the start and then found out what it was
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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby Nicholas » 20th June, 2015, 6:20 pm

Curtybyro wrote:I was like 6/7 and I "like-liked" two of my best friends, one a girl and one a boy
I looked up what that meant and voila
I never really questioned it, I just kinda knew from the start and then found out what it was


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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby Robert 96 » 20th June, 2015, 6:24 pm

I had some early 'thoughts' when i was 10, probably started questioning when I was 12-13, didn't fully accept it until I was 17, which is quite odd to think about now.
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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby BrownjaminBen » 20th June, 2015, 6:31 pm

Everyone hit puberty and discovered girls and hormones and the like but I was never attracted to girls, for some reason my mind jumped straight to "I must be asexual", I didn't even let myself consider the fact that I could be gay. And then I'm pretty sure it just hit me in the face one day and after a few months of trying to convince myself it wasn't true, I realised.
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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby daggerdan16 » 22nd July, 2015, 7:39 am

When I was 7 or 8 I gave my friend an hj. I still thought I was straight until I heard that gay was a thing at age 9 I questionef myself for a few weeks until one Thursday night I just knew. I cried for an age. I had to put on my brave face for school the next day and when I got home I went to my room and cried. I almost came out to my mum and dad that day, but I decided I would just hide it from everyone.
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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby pararyan » 22nd July, 2015, 3:50 pm

14, fell in love with my best friend, had a two year relationship, stop talking, now talking again (might have round 2)
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Re: When did you first start to question your sexuality?

Unread postby everynightsfriday » 22nd July, 2015, 7:14 pm

honestly, when i started watching porn i watched only straight and gay porn. i just couldn't get off to lesbian porn. 2 years later, and i've finally accepted that i'm gay :keke:
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